It said, Ride On, Rest in Peace. A simple wooden cross, stuck in the dirt on the side of the road marked the passing of a life from this world to the next. What a modest way to say this person has taken the next step in their journey through eternity. It is a journey so many have taken but so few are willing to consider.
The Passing of Life is Holy Ground
We look at a cross and see it as a symbol of death. The cemetery is a grim reminder of our view of the cross. It is a sign that someone’s life is over. Our immediate thought is about how they died and the family and friends they left behind. It doesn’t take long to start thinking about our own mortality and what we would leave behind. If you are like me, you may even wonder about the life to death process.
Almost 150,000 people die per day worldwide. The impact of a loss reflects the depth of our relationship. You may read the obituaries and not be moved at all by a person’s passing. You didn’t know them, so why should you be touched? But what if you see the obituary of a friend on the paper before you? How would that make you feel? It is generally accepted that our parents will die before us, so composing their obituary may be very moving. And God forbid, what if your child passes before you? Then you would know the depth of pain that is shared by those who live outside the normal order of things. The pain of death connects those who have shared it.
When death touches us, we are reminded that the passing of a loved one is a special event. Relationships captured in photos, videos and untold memories of days gone by flood our minds and fill our hearts. It is a time to reflect on the best of our relationship and sometimes the worst of the one we lost. It is a time to consider whether the worst was really that bad.
Death is one of the few times we are closest to seeing past the veil of this life. The closer you get to death, the more you realize what is important.
Just as the well of love that God has given us has no earthly bottom, so too can our grief be. A child mourns the passing of a parent for years. A man marks the death of a best friend on each anniversary of his death and on his birthday. A parent suffers the pain of losing a child and carries that wound like they are holding their baby child. The passing of life is holy ground.
Symbol of Life
While we see a cross as a symbol of death, God sees it as a symbol of life. We cling to life as if there is no tomorrow, but God has made a way for us to live forever with Him. God has a way of turning our perspective of death around and forcing us to see it from a different angle. He took our symbol of death and made it a symbol of life.
You know Jesus Christ and His story. It is the story that rises above the rest. It is the story of His birth, life, death and resurrection. Every December 25th, you celebrate His birth and every Easter you celebrate His resurrection. His is the story of true life. It is a reminder of the love that God has for you and the life He has waiting for you by simply believing in Him.
The apostle, Paul, was a sinner and violent aggressor, yet the Lord used him to demonstrate His perfect patience towards sinners so that they might be saved. Taken from 1 Timothy 13-16. In the same way, the Lord uses each one of us to demonstrate His patience towards sinners, because He desires ALL Men to be Saved and come to the knowledge of the Truth. He wants to save everyone from eternal destruction and separation from Him. In Heaven, He will wipe away every tear. There will be no more sorrow and no more pain because the former things will have passed away. We will live forever in joy, peace and inexpressible happiness on the day our veil is removed, if we have made a choice to believe that Jesus Christ is who He says He is. He is, the Great Redeemer, Wonderful Counselor and Prince of Peace. Don’t let disbelief cloud your choice.
We are the Family of Man
This life connects us and weaves our stories together. Death finalizes our story and passes it on to the next generation, but death does not need to end that connection. God made us Eternal Beings and meant for us to keep our relationships forever. And we can, in Heaven. We will know each other forever, but in that place those relationships will be drenched in peace and harmony. It will be the best of times.
Are there people that have made a difference in your life? Perhaps someone in your childhood who shared a special bond with you? If their journey took them from this world before you, then know that they aren’t gone forever. They are simply waiting on the other side for you.
There is an hour for each of us to die. Do not be afraid of that hour, because it is what you have been created for. Not to dwell here on this world forever, but to learn, to grow, to build family, friendships and earthly connections that will continue into eternity. You were born to be eternal. You were made an eternal being. You are eternal. The sign of the Cross says it is so.